Unhappy In Our Own Way

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

fitness article

I thought I would share with you an article I found with the "100 smartest diet tips ever", which I actually found very interesting. I'm always looking for ways to be healthier... eating less in general and more of the right things, plus fitting in more exercise. Most of these tips seem very easy to fit in, plus they are realistic.

100 Smartest Diet Tips Ever

Provided by: Prevention

Got a diet dilemma? Ask a true diet pro: an RD, or registered dietitian. Her job is turning complex nutrition research into doable plans for real people.

Courtesy of the American Dietetic Association (ADA), we took our readers' eleven toughest diet problems and ran them by some of the top dietitians in the US: RDs who, in addition to their private careers, serve as media spokespersons or heads of specialty practice groups for the ADA.

Here's what they told us, in their own words. These tips are solid gold, learned from successful experience with thousands of clients. Some tips are new. Some you've heard before, but they're repeated because they work. This treasure trove of RD wisdom could change your life-starting today.

I Can Only Handle One Diet Change Right Now. What Should I Do?
1. Add just one fruit or veggie serving daily. Get comfortable with that, then add an extra serving until you reach 8 to 10 a day.

2. Eat at least two servings of a fruit or veggie at every meal.

3. Resolve never to supersize your food portions—unless you want to supersize your clothes.

4. Make eating purposeful, not mindless. Whenever you put food in your mouth, peel it, unwrap it, plate it, and sit. Engage all of the senses in the pleasure of nourishing your body.

5. Start eating a big breakfast. It helps you eat fewer total calories throughout the day.

6. Make sure your plate is half veggies and/or fruit at both lunch and dinner.

Are there Any Easy Tricks to Help Me Cut Calories?
7. Eating out? Halve it, and bag the rest. A typical restaurant entree has 1,000 to 2,000 calories, not even counting the bread, appetizer, beverage, and dessert.

8. When dining out, make it automatic: Order one dessert to share.

9. Use a salad plate instead of a dinner plate.

10. See what you eat. Plate your food instead of eating out of the jar or bag.

11. Eat the low-cal items on your plate first, then graduate. Start with salads, veggies, and broth soups, and eat meats and starches last. By the time you get to them, you'll be full enough to be content with smaller portions of the high-calorie choices.

12.
Instead of whole milk, switch to 1 percent. If you drink one 8-oz glass a day, you'll lose 5 lb in a year.

13. Juice has as many calories, ounce for ounce, as soda. Set a limit of one 8-oz glass of fruit juice a day.

14. Get calories from foods you chew, not beverages. Have fresh fruit instead of fruit juice.

15. Keep a food journal. It really works wonders.

16. Follow the Chinese saying: "Eat until you are eight-tenths full."

17. Use mustard instead of mayo.

18. Eat more soup. The noncreamy ones are filling but low-cal.

19. Cut back on or cut out caloric drinks such as soda, sweet tea, lemonade, etc. People have lost weight by making just this one change. If you have a 20-oz bottle of Coca-Cola every day, switch to Diet Coke. You should lose 25 lb in a year.

20. Take your lunch to work.

21. Sit when you eat.

22. Dilute juice with water.

23. Have mostly veggies for lunch.

24. Eat at home.

25. Limit alcohol to weekends.

How Can I Eat More Veggies?
26. Have a V8 or tomato juice instead of a Diet Coke at 3 pm.

27. Doctor your veggies to make them delicious: Dribble maple syrup over carrots, and sprinkle chopped nuts on green beans.

28. Mix three different cans of beans and some diet Italian dressing. Eat this three-bean salad all week.

29. Don't forget that vegetable soup counts as a vegetable.

30. Rediscover the sweet potato.

31. Use prebagged baby spinach everywhere: as "lettuce" in sandwiches, heated in soups, wilted in hot pasta, and added to salads.

32. Spend the extra few dollars to buy vegetables that are already washed and cut up.

33. Really hate veggies? Relax. If you love fruits, eat plenty of them; they are just as healthy (especially colorful ones such as oranges, mangoes, and melons).

34. Keep seven bags of your favorite frozen vegetables on hand. Mix any combination, microwave, and top with your favorite low-fat dressing. Enjoy 3 to 4 cups a day. Makes a great quick dinner.

Can You Give Me a Mantra that will Help Me Stick to My Diet?
35. "The best portion of high-calorie foods is the smallest one. The best portion of vegetables is the largest one. Period."

36. "I'll ride the wave. My cravings will disappear after 10 minutes if I turn my attention elsewhere."

37. "I want to be around to see my grandchildren, so I can forgo a cookie now."

38. "I am a work in progress."

39. "It's more stressful to continue being fat than to stop overeating."

I Eat Healthy, but I'm Overweight. What Mistakes Could I Be Making without Realizing It?
40. Skipping meals. Many healthy eaters "diet by day and binge by night."

41. Don't "graze" yourself fat. You can easily munch 600 calories of pretzels or cereal without realizing it.

42. Eating pasta like crazy. A serving of pasta is 1 cup, but some people routinely eat 4 cups.43. Eating supersize bagels of 400 to 500 calories for snacks.

44. Ignoring "Serving Size" on the Nutrition Facts panel.

45. Snacking on bowls of nuts. Nuts are healthy but dense with calories. Put those bowls away, and use nuts as a garnish instead of a snack.

46. Thinking all energy bars and fruit smoothies are low-cal.

What Can I Eat for a Healthy Low-Cal Dinner if I Don't Want to Cook?
47. A smoothie made with fat-free milk, frozen fruit, and wheat germ.

48. The smallest fast-food burger (with mustard and ketchup, not mayo) and a no-cal beverage. Then at home, have an apple or baby carrots.

49. A peanut butter sandwich on whole wheat bread with a glass of 1 percent milk and an apple.

50. Precooked chicken strips and microwaved frozen broccoli topped with Parmesan cheese.

51. A healthy frozen entree with a salad and a glass of 1 percent milk.

52. Scramble eggs in a nonstick skillet. Pop some asparagus in the microwave, and add whole wheat toast. If your cholesterol levels are normal, you can have seven eggs a week!

53. A bag of frozen vegetables heated in the microwave, topped with 2 tablespoons of Parmesan cheese and 2 tablespoons of chopped nuts.

54. Prebagged salad topped with canned tuna, grape tomatoes, shredded reduced-fat cheese, and low-cal Italian dressing.

55. Keep lean sandwich fixings on hand: whole wheat bread, sliced turkey, reduced-fat cheese, tomatoes, mustard with horseradish.

56. Heat up a can of good soup.

57. Cereal, fruit, and fat-free milk makes a good meal anytime.

58. Try a veggie sandwich from Subway.

59. Precut fruit for a salad and add yogurt.

What's Your Best Advice for Avoiding those Extra Holiday Pounds?
60. Don't tell yourself, "It's okay, it's the holidays." That opens the door to 6 weeks of splurging.

61. Remember, EAT before you meet. Have this small meal before you go to any parties: a hardboiled Egg, Apple, and a Thirst quencher (water, seltzer, diet soda, tea).

62. As obvious as it sounds, don't stand near the food at parties. Make the effort, and you'll find you eat less.

63. At a buffet? Eating a little of everything guarantees high calories. Decide on three or four things, only one of which is high in calories. Save that for last so there's less chance of overeating.

64.
For the duration of the holidays, wear your snuggest clothes that don't allow much room for expansion. Wearing sweats is out until January.

65. Give it away! After company leaves, give away leftover food to neighbors, doormen, or delivery people, or take it to work the next day.

66. Walk around the mall three times before you start shopping.

67. Make exercise a nonnegotiable priority.

68. Dance to music with your family in your home. One dietitian reported that when she asks her patients to do this, initially they just smile, but once they've done it, they say it is one of the easiest ways to involve the whole family in exercise.

How Can I Control a Raging Sweet Tooth?
69. Once in a while, have a lean, mean salad for lunch or dinner, and save the meal's calories for a full dessert.

70. Are you the kind of person who does better if you make up your mind to do without sweets and just not have them around? Or are you going to do better if you have a limited amount of sweets every day? One RD reported that most of her clients pick the latter and find they can avoid bingeing after a few days.

71. If your family thinks they need a very sweet treat every night, try to strike a balance between offering healthy choices but allowing them some "free will." Compromise with low-fat ice cream and fruit, or sometimes just fruit with a dollop of whipped cream.

72. Try 2 weeks without sweets. It's amazing how your cravings vanish.

73. Eat more fruit. A person who gets enough fruit in his diet doesn't have a raging sweet tooth.

74. Eat your sweets, just eat them smart! Carve out about 150 calories per day for your favorite sweet. That amounts to about an ounce of chocolate, half a modest slice of cake, or 1/2 cup of regular ice cream.

75. Try these smart little sweets: sugar-free hot cocoa, frozen red grapes, fudgsicles, sugar-free gum, Nutri-Grain chocolate fudge twists, Tootsie Rolls, and hard candy.

How Can I Conquer My Downfall: Bingeing at Night?
76. Eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. The large majority of people who struggle with night eating are those who skip meals or don't eat balanced meals during the day. This is a major setup for overeating at night.

77. Eat your evening meal in the kitchen or dining room, sitting down at the table.

78. Drink cold unsweetened raspberry tea. It tastes great and keeps your mouth busy.

79. Change your nighttime schedule. It will take effort, but it will pay off. You need something that will occupy your mind and hands.

80. If you're eating at night due to emotions, you need to focus on getting in touch with what's going on and taking care of yourself in a way that really works. Find a nonfood method of coping with your stress.

81. Put a sign on the kitchen and refrigerator doors: "Closed after Dinner."

82. Brush your teeth right after dinner to remind you: No more food.

83. Eat without engaging in any other simultaneous activity. No reading, watching TV, or sitting at the computer.

84. Eating late at night won't itself cause weight gain. It's how many calories—not when you eat them—that counts.

How Can I Reap Added Health Benefits from My Dieting?
85. Fat-free isn't always your best bet. Research has found that none of the lycopene or alpha- or beta-carotene that fight cancer and heart disease is absorbed from salads with fat-free dressing. Only slightly more is absorbed with reduced-fat dressing; the most is absorbed with full-fat dressing. But remember, use your dressing in moderate amounts.

86. Skipping breakfast will leave you tired and craving naughty foods by midmorning. To fill up healthfully and tastefully, try this sweet, fruity breakfast full of antioxidants. In a blender, process 1 c nonfat plain or vanilla yogurt, 1 1/3 c frozen strawberries (no added sugar), 1 peeled kiwi, and 1 peeled banana. Pulse until mixture is milkshake consistency. Makes one 2-cup serving; 348 calories and 1.5 fat grams.

87. If you're famished by 4 p.m. and have no alternative but an office vending machine, reach for the nuts—. The same goes if your only choices are what's available in the hotel minibar.

88. Next time you're feeling wiped out in late afternoon, forgo that cup of coffee and reach for a cup of yogurt instead. The combination of protein, carbohydrate, and fat in an 8-ounce serving of low-fat yogurt will give you a sense of fullness and well-being that coffee can't match, as well as some vital nutrients. If you haven't eaten in 3 to 4 hours, your blood glucose levels are probably dropping, so eating a small amount of nutrient-rich food will give your brain and your body a boost.

89. Making just a few changes to your pantry shelves can get you a lot closer to your weight loss goals. Here's what to do: If you use corn and peanut oil, replace it with olive oil. Same goes for breads—go for whole wheat. Trade in those fatty cold cuts like salami and bologna and replace them canned tuna, sliced turkey breast, and lean roast beef. Change from drinking whole milk to fat-free milk or low-fat soy milk. This is hard for a lot of people so try transitioning down to 2 percent and then 1 percent before you go fat-free.

90. Nothing's less appetizing than a crisper drawer full of mushy vegetables. Frozen vegetables store much better, plus they may have greater nutritional value than fresh. Food suppliers typically freeze veggies just a few hours after harvest, locking in the nutrients. Fresh veggies, on the other hand, often spend days in the back of a truck before they reach your supermarket.

91. Worried about the trans-fat content in your peanut butter? Good news: In a test done on Skippy, JIF, Peter Pan, and a supermarket brand, the levels of trans fats per 2-tablespoon serving were far lower than 0.5 gram—low enough that under proposed laws, the brands can legally claim zero trans fats on the label. They also contained only 1 gram more sugar than natural brands—not a significant difference.

Eating Less Isn't Enough—What Exercising Tips Will Help Me Shed Pounds?
92. Overeating is not the result of exercise. Vigorous exercise won't stimulate you to overeat. It's just the opposite. Exercise at any level helps curb your appetite immediately following the workout.

93. When you're exercising, you shouldn't wait for thirst to strike before you take a drink. By the time you feel thirsty, you're already dehydrated. Try this: Drink at least 16 ounces of water, sports drinks, or juices two hours before you exercise. Then drink 8 ounces an hour before and another 4 to 8 ounces every 15 to 20 minutes during your workout. Finish with at least 16 ounces after you're done exercising.

94. Tune in to an audio book while you walk. It'll keep you going longer and looking forward to the next walk—and the next chapter! Check your local library for a great selection. Look for a whodunit; you might walk so far you'll need to take a cab home!

95. Think yoga's too serene to burn calories? Think again. You can burn 250 to 350 calories during an hour-long class (that's as much as you'd burn from an hour of walking)! Plus, you'll improve muscle strength, flexibility, and endurance.

96. Drinking too few can hamper your weight loss efforts. That's because dehydration can slow your metabolism by 3 percent, or about 45 fewer calories burned a day, which in a year could mean weighing 5 pounds more. The key to water isn't how much you drink, it's how frequently you drink it. Small amounts sipped often work better than 8 ounces gulped down at once.

How Can I Manage My Emotional Eating and Get the Support I Need?
97. A registered dietitian (RD) can help you find healthy ways to manage your weight with food. To find one in your area who consults with private clients call (800) 366-1655.

98. The best place to drop pounds may be your own house of worship. Researchers set up healthy eating and exercise programs in 16 Baltimore churches. More than 500 women participated and after a year the most successful lost an average of 20 lb. Weight loss programs based on faith are so successful because there's a built-in community component that people can feel comfortable with.

99. Here's another reason to keep level-headed all the time: Pennsylvania State University research has found that women less able to cope with stress—shown by blood pressure and heart rate elevations—ate twice as many fatty snacks as stress-resistant women did, even after the stress stopped (in this case, 25 minutes of periodic jackhammer-level noise and an unsolvable maze).

100. Sitting at a computer may help you slim down. When researchers at Brown University School of Medicine put 92 people on online weight loss programs for a year, those who received weekly e-mail counseling shed 5 1/2 more pounds than those who got none. Counselors provided weekly feedback on diet and exercise logs, answered questions, and cheered them on. Most major online diet programs offer many of these features.

Monday, February 26, 2007

spam problem

Word verification is in place (go to post a comment to see how it works). Hopefully that will take care of the problem.

Sunday, February 25, 2007

Pan's Labyrinth

If you haven't had a chance to see this film, I highly recommend it, and highly recommend seeing it on the big screen. It's by Spanish director Guillermo del Toro, and it's set in post-Civil WarSpain and in an underworld that may or may not be imaginary. Sumptous photography, haunting music. A bit violent for my tastes (I had to close my eyes a few times) but worth the effort. Two thumbs up from Wray and Ian.

Friday, February 23, 2007

Spam on our blog

We keep getting comments from advertizers on our blog. How did that happen?

Picture

I finally got a chance to add a photo to my profile, so I had to try it out :-)

. . . and your sitting on top of the world


Brendan at Surfers' Heaven

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Sad News

For those of you who have met our friend Mary MacDonald Moore, I want to pass on some news. She was at Megan's & Travis' wedding and danced a jig with me at the beginning of the reception. Her youngest brother, Daniel, passed away. He had a very rare brain cancer. His obituary is in the Allentown paper and I will see if I can pass the link on to you. This is Mary's second sibling to die of cancer, although it was a different kind of cancer. He was married and they have two young children. It is heart breaking.

hello? can anybody hear me?

Hello?
Is there anybody in there?
Just nod if you can hear me.
Is there anyone at home?


Where did everyone go? It seems like only a few people pop by anymore. And when people post, no one comments. Is anyone here?! :-)

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Building an Igloo

It's intensely bright and sunny out today, but still very very cold, around 20. This reminds me of winters growing up, and in particular of a winter when it was cold enough and snowy enough that we built in igloo in our back yard. This was in Shark River Hills, and I think we did it with the Swingles, Donnabeth and Buzzie (Jono was too young). But it was in our back yard and it was bright and sunny and we actually cut blocks of frozen snow with a handsaw and constructed the igloo as we imagined Eskimos did. And it was perfectly symmetrical and stable, and the only thing not perfect was that it was way too cold to actually sit inside it, out of the sunshine. Plus it turned out that sitting inside an igloo wasn't all that much fun, not nearly as much fun as erecting it and pretending we were Eskimos. I think Donnabeth and I rubbed noses. So we built a perfect igloo but never sat in it. It lasted long after the other winter snow had melted, because it was so compact, so we had the remnants of an Arctic igloo in our back yard into the spring. This was probably the winter of '58, I am guessing.

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

The Misheard Lyrics Hall of Fame

My fave is "Bad Moon Rising," though it's hard to choose.

Clarity isn't a job requirement for singers the way it was in Bing Crosby's day. This is for the best--nobody wants to see rock stars sent back to school for remedial elocution classes. You may have trouble understanding a vocalist because he or she is omitting minor details like vowels and consonants. Some singers are more proficient at this slurring than others, which is why I am pleased to honor the twelve members of the Misheard Lyrics Hall of Fame: Kurt Cobain, Bob Dylan, Jack Ely, John Fogerty, Chrissie Hynde, Mick Jagger, Elton John, Steve Miller, Stevie Nicks, Gavin Rossdale, Michael Stipe, and Eddie Vedder. Take a bow, fellas. Talk amongst yourselves--let us know if you need a translator.

Kurt Cobain
Nirvana, "All Apologies" Wrong lyric: Found my nasty salt
Right lyric: Found my nest of salt

Nirvana, "Smells Like Teen Spirit" Wrong lyric: I'm blotto and bravado/I'm a scarecrow and a Beatle
Right lyric: A mulatto, an albino/A mosquito, my libido

Bob Dylan
"Blowin' in the Wind" Wrong lyric: The ants are my friend, they're blowin' in the wind
Right lyric: The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind

"Lay Lady Lay" Wrong lyric: Lady Elaine, lay across my big brass bed
Right lyric: Lay lady lay, lay across my big brass bed

Jack Ely
The Kingsmen, "Louie Louie" Wrong lyric: I shoot a wad into her hair
Right lyric: I smell the rose in her hair

The Kingsmen, "Louie Louie" Wrong lyric: Tell her I'll never lay her again
Right lyric: I tell her I never leave again

John Fogerty
Creedence Clearwater Revival, "Bad Moon Rising" Wrong lyric: There's a bathroom on the right Right lyric: There's a bad moon on the rise

Creedence Clearwater Revival, "Fortunate Son" Wrong lyric: I got no fortune in Guam
Right lyric: I ain't no fortunate son

Chrissie Hynde
The Pretenders, "Brass in Pocket" Wrong lyric: Gonna use my sausage
Right lyric: Gonna use my sidestep

The Pretenders, "Middle of the Road" Wrong lyric: I'm not the cat I used to be/I've got a can of thirty-three babies
Right lyric: I've got a kid, I'm thirty-three, baby

Mick Jagger
The Rolling Stones, "Beast of Burden" Wrong lyric: I'll never leave your pizza burning
Right lyric: I'll never be your beast of burden

The Rolling Stones, "Paint It, Black" Wrong lyric: I see a Renoir and I want to paint it black Right lyric: I see a red door and I want to paint it black

Elton John
"Bennie and the Jets" Wrong: She's got electric boobs, her mom has two
Right: She's got electric boots and mohair shoes

"Rocket Man" Wrong lyric: Rocket man, burning up the trees on every lawn
Right lyric: Rocket man, burning out his fuse up here alone

"Tiny Dancer" Wrong lyric: Hold me closer, Tony Danza
Right lyric: Hold me closer, tiny dancer

Steve Miller
Steve Miller Band, "Jet Airliner" Wrong lyric: We don't chat at a lighthouse
Right lyric: Big ol' jet airliner

Steve Miller Band, "Jungle Love" Wrong lyric: Chug-a-lug, strawberry man
Right lyric: Jungle love is drivin' me mad

Stevie Nicks
"Edge of Seventeen" Wrong lyric: Just like the one-winged dog
Right lyric: Just like the white-winged dove

"Stand Back" Wrong lyric: Stamp Act
Right lyric: Stand back

Gavin Rossdale
Bush, "Glycerine" Wrong lyric: Batman watergun
Right lyric: Bad moon wine again

Bush, "Everything Zen" Wrong lyric: There's no sex in Ohio/There's no sex in Rhode Island Right lyric: There's no sex in your violence/There's no sex in your violence

Michael Stipe
R.E.M., "Man on the Moon"Wrong lyric: Edith was troubled by a horrible ass
Right lyric: Egypt was troubled by the horrible asp

R.E.M., "What's the Frequency, Kenneth?" Wrong lyric: You wore a skirt made of cream cheese Right lyric: You wore a shirt of violent green

Eddie Vedder
Pearl Jam, "Glorified G" Wrong lyric: Forty-five versions of a pelican
Right lyric: Glorified version of a pellet gun

Pearl Jam, "Jeremy" Wrong lyric: Laymen yell, "Oh son!"
Right lyric: Lemon-yellow sun

Thursday, February 08, 2007

Children the point of marriage?

Washington initiative would require kids for marriage

A new Initiative in the works will ask whether or not children are the point of marriage?

Last summer (in Washington state), the courts ruled that Washington's Defense of Marriage Act -- which prevents gays and lesbians from marrying -- was legal because the state has a legitimate interest in "preserving marriage for procreation." So a gay rights group has taken that one step further creating Initiative 957, stating that if you believe the legality of the D.o.M.A. for that reason, then in fact, having kids is a requirement for marriage. If the initiative makes it on the ballot and becomes law, it would limit marriage to couples who are able and planning to have children. If no children were produced within three years, the marriage would be annulled.

Obviously their main goal is not for the Initiative to pass, but to make the point that Washington's reasoning is completely flawed in this day and age (especially since homosexual couples often do have children)! I love it... either marriage is about children (in which case you shouldn't be allowed to marry if you can't or won't have any) or it isn't just about kids, but about something more then that, of which children are only one part (in which case gays and lesbians should be able to marry).



What do you think?

Sunday, February 04, 2007

HBTY

Happy 17th birthday E-man!